I have always felt that people judge too fast and on the basis of materialistic (mis)conceptions. Or else why would a doc think i am a drunkard? To his defense, he isn't the first person to think so. Many others have been mistaken and surprised to find that i don't indulge in drinking. Here is the transcript of what happened recently when i went to donate blood:-
Doc: Are you taking any medicines, antibiotics?
Me: Nope
Doc: Have you suffered from any disease lately?
Me: None
Doc: Did you have alcohol yesterday?
Me: I don't drink
Doc: What? Why are you lying? (can't explain the look on his face)
Me: I seriously don't ...
I understand this phenomenon (i can call it phenomenon bcos it keeps on repeating) has something to do with how i look, but why make a judgment so fast and so early?
In reality, i don't give a damn about what others think if i drink, smoke or what not, but it just shows that people make a decision about you even before you have talked/interacted with them. I always try and avoid being judgmental before i have known the person well enough, it does help when you don't take your notions/conceptions and have a blank slate(mind).
Anyways, this was just another anecdote in the book of life... but the really funny part is that the list of people whom i have managed to surprise is growing... :)